
God tells me in the bible that homosexuality is wrong, however he tells me a crapload of things are wrong, many of which it do countless times every day. Therefore who am I to judge?
God also says in the bible that church should remain separate from state. To this end I don't really see what the problem is with civil gay marriage. Churches can still refuse to conduct same sex marriages if that is what they want.
To me marriage without God is worthless, but that is my belief only and it shouldn't be forced on others through law by the state.
To many Christians get caught up in the 'right & wrong' debate IMO, handing out what they believe is 'God's judgement' and spreading a message of hatred and division which is exactly the opposite of what the big fella upstairs actually wants.