by Brodlach » Wed Aug 11, 2021 6:46 pm
Brodlach wrote:Rory Laird might end up the best IMO, he is an absolute jet. He has been in great form at the Bloods
by locky801 » Wed Aug 11, 2021 6:49 pm
Brodlach wrote:Is $10 for a pint in a pub normal?
by mighty_tiger_79 » Wed Aug 11, 2021 6:51 pm
Probably if it's from a craft brewery...locky801 wrote:Brodlach wrote:Is $10 for a pint in a pub normal?
for a pint of what![]()
by Corona Man » Wed Aug 11, 2021 6:58 pm
Brodlach wrote:Is $10 for a pint in a pub normal?
by Wedgie » Wed Aug 11, 2021 7:13 pm
Brodlach wrote:Is $10 for a pint in a pub normal?
Armchair expert wrote:Such a great club are Geelong
by The Bedge » Wed Aug 11, 2021 7:17 pm
Wedgie wrote:Brodlach wrote:Is $10 for a pint in a pub normal?
My pub does jugs for $9.90!![]()
(Thur-Sun, selected beers only)
Dolphin Treasure wrote:Your an attention seeking embarsement..
by Pseudo » Wed Aug 11, 2021 7:54 pm
by whufc » Wed Aug 11, 2021 8:05 pm
by amber_fluid » Wed Aug 11, 2021 8:14 pm
whufc wrote:Need some advice but don't want to look for it on the wider social media audience.
So I have a court order to have miss 12 and miss 10 every second fortnight. In recent times the kids have been unsure about coming up which really took me by surprise as we have a strong relationship.
I was texting both the girls last night about this upcoming weekend and they were really keen. I got a text an hour ago from Miss 10 saying hey we might not come up as mum said if we don't go she will take us ice skating. Upon asking miss 10 a few more questions I have worked out that the ex has been doing that for last couple of months which is why they haven't been coming up.
To make matters worse the ex has used that to increase her child support due to the less care I have had. As I mentioned previously the one night of care changed the price by around $130 a fortnight per child, no wonder she can afford to take them out if they stay with her instead.
Has anyone experienced this type behaviour, do you think my court order which was stock standard might prevent her from contiounsly planning events on my scheduled weekends. Would I speak to child support or is this more of a 'legal' issue.
Sorry for opening up on here but the honest answer is I don't have a lot of support networks who have experience in this field.
by whufc » Wed Aug 11, 2021 8:21 pm
amber_fluid wrote:whufc wrote:Need some advice but don't want to look for it on the wider social media audience.
So I have a court order to have miss 12 and miss 10 every second fortnight. In recent times the kids have been unsure about coming up which really took me by surprise as we have a strong relationship.
I was texting both the girls last night about this upcoming weekend and they were really keen. I got a text an hour ago from Miss 10 saying hey we might not come up as mum said if we don't go she will take us ice skating. Upon asking miss 10 a few more questions I have worked out that the ex has been doing that for last couple of months which is why they haven't been coming up.
To make matters worse the ex has used that to increase her child support due to the less care I have had. As I mentioned previously the one night of care changed the price by around $130 a fortnight per child, no wonder she can afford to take them out if they stay with her instead.
Has anyone experienced this type behaviour, do you think my court order which was stock standard might prevent her from contiounsly planning events on my scheduled weekends. Would I speak to child support or is this more of a 'legal' issue.
Sorry for opening up on here but the honest answer is I don't have a lot of support networks who have experience in this field.
If you have a court order to have them every 2nd weekend isn’t that what has to happen as detailed in the court order?
by Jim05 » Wed Aug 11, 2021 8:24 pm
Yep, my brother has gone through similar in the past. The court order is meant to be obeyed, I’d be letting her know this is the caseamber_fluid wrote:whufc wrote:Need some advice but don't want to look for it on the wider social media audience.
So I have a court order to have miss 12 and miss 10 every second fortnight. In recent times the kids have been unsure about coming up which really took me by surprise as we have a strong relationship.
I was texting both the girls last night about this upcoming weekend and they were really keen. I got a text an hour ago from Miss 10 saying hey we might not come up as mum said if we don't go she will take us ice skating. Upon asking miss 10 a few more questions I have worked out that the ex has been doing that for last couple of months which is why they haven't been coming up.
To make matters worse the ex has used that to increase her child support due to the less care I have had. As I mentioned previously the one night of care changed the price by around $130 a fortnight per child, no wonder she can afford to take them out if they stay with her instead.
Has anyone experienced this type behaviour, do you think my court order which was stock standard might prevent her from contiounsly planning events on my scheduled weekends. Would I speak to child support or is this more of a 'legal' issue.
Sorry for opening up on here but the honest answer is I don't have a lot of support networks who have experience in this field.
If you have a court order to have them every 2nd weekend isn’t that what has to happen as detailed in the court order?
by Brodlach » Wed Aug 11, 2021 10:38 pm
locky801 wrote:Brodlach wrote:Is $10 for a pint in a pub normal?
for a pint of what![]()
Brodlach wrote:Rory Laird might end up the best IMO, he is an absolute jet. He has been in great form at the Bloods
by Lightning McQueen » Thu Aug 12, 2021 8:41 am
whufc wrote:Need some advice but don't want to look for it on the wider social media audience.
So I have a court order to have miss 12 and miss 10 every second fortnight. In recent times the kids have been unsure about coming up which really took me by surprise as we have a strong relationship.
I was texting both the girls last night about this upcoming weekend and they were really keen. I got a text an hour ago from Miss 10 saying hey we might not come up as mum said if we don't go she will take us ice skating. Upon asking miss 10 a few more questions I have worked out that the ex has been doing that for last couple of months which is why they haven't been coming up.
To make matters worse the ex has used that to increase her child support due to the less care I have had. As I mentioned previously the one night of care changed the price by around $130 a fortnight per child, no wonder she can afford to take them out if they stay with her instead.
Has anyone experienced this type behaviour, do you think my court order which was stock standard might prevent her from contiounsly planning events on my scheduled weekends. Would I speak to child support or is this more of a 'legal' issue.
Sorry for opening up on here but the honest answer is I don't have a lot of support networks who have experience in this field.
by whufc » Thu Aug 12, 2021 9:09 am
by Lightning McQueen » Thu Aug 12, 2021 9:22 am
whufc wrote:Oh yeah, she definitely reinforces why she is my ex. Sadly as my life has got better and I have achieved things her attitude and behaviour has deteriorated.
Hard part is actually getting them up here now. If she has convinced them a weekend with her is going to be more fun, im not sure how I can even get them to my house. Especially given she controls the amount of time I can contact them throughout the week.
Like this week I got a text from miss 10 saying, hey dad we might not come up this weekend eventually we got to a point where she messaged me mum said if we don't go she will take us ice skating and to the movies.
I responded with it would be great if you could come up, happy to do whatever you would like to do.
Next text was 'sorry dad mum said I have to get off my phone now, chat tomorrow if im allowed to.'
We always encourage the girls to bring up friends and when they do they have they have an absolute ball.
by whufc » Thu Aug 12, 2021 9:38 am
by Lightning McQueen » Thu Aug 12, 2021 9:51 am
whufc wrote:5:30pm, their own phone.
by Brodlach » Thu Aug 12, 2021 10:17 am
Brodlach wrote:Rory Laird might end up the best IMO, he is an absolute jet. He has been in great form at the Bloods
by whufc » Thu Aug 12, 2021 10:23 am
Lightning McQueen wrote:whufc wrote:5:30pm, their own phone.
Dude, you're her dad, she doesn't need to get off of her phone, it wasn't late.
by whufc » Thu Aug 12, 2021 10:27 am
Brodlach wrote:Sounds like she is jealous of what you have become.
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