Wedding Venue

We're trying to plan a wedding, and we're a trying to save money where we can.
We have a few places we're looking at that do the whole thing, but after attending an awesome wedding in Streaky Bay over the weekend that was done differently, we're now looking into getting a venue, caterer, etc separately.
The only problem is we can't find anywhere that looks the way the missus wants that isn't a winery or a function centre that only does the full deal.
Does anyone know of anywhere that is rustic, where we could organise our own catering, bar, band, etc?
Cheers
We have a few places we're looking at that do the whole thing, but after attending an awesome wedding in Streaky Bay over the weekend that was done differently, we're now looking into getting a venue, caterer, etc separately.
The only problem is we can't find anywhere that looks the way the missus wants that isn't a winery or a function centre that only does the full deal.
Does anyone know of anywhere that is rustic, where we could organise our own catering, bar, band, etc?
Cheers