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The hardest thing I have ever had to do....thus far.

Postby Moe » Wed Sep 19, 2012 1:58 pm

Just had my 16 years old beautiful staffy x labrador euthinised.
The hardest decision I have ever made.
I wish people were as loyal.
R.I.P. Bundy.
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Postby Dissident » Wed Sep 19, 2012 2:00 pm

Sorry to hear that mate.
Worst thing in the world.
Still, wouldn't go back and not get the dog knowing what happens.

Good times are worth the pain.
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Postby helicopterking » Wed Sep 19, 2012 2:03 pm

Awful news, sorry to hear.
Happened'to me when I was 17, was awful, great dog and friend he was, I still miss him. That was 10 years ago.
This day I fear and my new'dog is only 3.
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Postby JK » Wed Sep 19, 2012 2:25 pm

Still getting over having to do the same recently, and it's just ****** .. All the best mate
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Postby Choccies » Wed Sep 19, 2012 2:27 pm

Yeah that's one of the hardest things I had to do as well....... I feel for ya mate....
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Postby valleys07 » Wed Sep 19, 2012 2:36 pm

Thoughts are with you Moe. Bloody tough!

Lost my first dog in 2000 and they never leave you.

helicopterking wrote:This day I fear and my new'dog is only 3.


Me too.. My dog isnt even 2 yet and already im dreading the day when he has to leave us.
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Postby Jase » Wed Sep 19, 2012 3:06 pm

valleys07 wrote:Thoughts are with you Moe. Bloody tough!

Lost my first dog in 2000 and they never leave you.

helicopterking wrote:This day I fear and my new'dog is only 3.


Me too.. My dog isnt even 2 yet and already im dreading the day when he has to leave us.


Same, I'm taking my 14 month old dog to the vet tonight for another heartworm injection and dreading them finding something wrong with him in the checkup...
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Postby Sky Pilot » Wed Sep 19, 2012 3:24 pm

Moe wrote:Just had my 16 years old beautiful staffy x labrador euthinised.
The hardest decision I have ever made.
I wish people were as loyal.
R.I.P. Bundy.

Faaaarking awful news mate. You have my sympathies. My current dog is staffy/Collie cross and is ten this Xmas. I'm dreading the day she carks it. my previous one was a border collie and he died in my arms after having a heart attack when he was 11.
It must have been excritiating to take your pet of 16 years to a vet knowing you will be carrying it out deceased. Bloody awful.
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Postby fisho mcspaz » Wed Sep 19, 2012 3:52 pm

We haven't got a dog, but our cat was hit by a car a few months ago and was taken to the vet by someone who found her. Mr McSpaz was at work and I had to bring the boys with me to the vet, where we were told that Kitty would be unlikely to survive surgery or have significant quality of life. The second hardest thing was explaining this to Angus, who was devastated; the hardest thing was to watch his behaviour. He was trying so hard to be brave and not cry, because he didn't want to distress Kitty (not that she would have been distressed - she was as high as a kite on methadone and went mental with happiness when she saw us). After we'd stayed with her for a time and said our goodbyes, Angus said that he would like to go out of the room when the vet gave her the injection, so the receptionist took the kids out and I held Kitty while she was put to sleep. On our way home Angus said quietly that he was very sad, because he had chosen her from the animal shelter when she was a kitten, and she was his friend, and could he please stay home from school tomorrow? (I let him.) But yeah, it was very hard to say goodbye to Kitty - she was such a spazzy little girl. She was three years old but still seemed to think she was a kitten, and we could never predict what she was going to do. The trouble was that she was so friendly and always liked to visit other people's houses, and she thought nothing of crossing the main road. That was where she was run down. We couldn't stop her - we couldn't keep her locked up. We were getting calls frequently from shop owners and from St Francis Winery to come and collect her (Kitty liked to crash wedding parties - lots of people always attracted her).
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Postby woodublieve12 » Wed Sep 19, 2012 4:04 pm

So sorry to hear moe... Fisho, very sad too. :( Had my wedding at st francis in nov 2010. Wish the kitty said hi.
I can't imagine taking my dog to the vet to say good bye, she's 3 and is the 1st pet myself and my wife have got. she is a legend...

But my family dog we got when i was 10, and had to get put down when i was 28. probably a bit late but it was too hard to pull the pin. old age just caught up with him and had no idea what he was doing... Probably one of the most disobediant (can't spell) dogs i've ever known :lol: , but he was a dead set legend with a huge personality for such a little dog. very loyal. :(
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Postby scoob » Wed Sep 19, 2012 4:08 pm

fisho mcspaz wrote:We haven't got a dog, but our cat was hit by a car a few months ago and was taken to the vet by someone who found her. Mr McSpaz was at work and I had to bring the boys with me to the vet, where we were told that Kitty would be unlikely to survive surgery or have significant quality of life. The second hardest thing was explaining this to Angus, who was devastated; the hardest thing was to watch his behaviour. He was trying so hard to be brave and not cry, because he didn't want to distress Kitty (not that she would have been distressed - she was as high as a kite on methadone and went mental with happiness when she saw us). After we'd stayed with her for a time and said our goodbyes, Angus said that he would like to go out of the room when the vet gave her the injection, so the receptionist took the kids out and I held Kitty while she was put to sleep. On our way home Angus said quietly that he was very sad, because he had chosen her from the animal shelter when she was a kitten, and she was his friend, and could he please stay home from school tomorrow? (I let him.) But yeah, it was very hard to say goodbye to Kitty - she was such a spazzy little girl. She was three years old but still seemed to think she was a kitten, and we could never predict what she was going to do. The trouble was that she was so friendly and always liked to visit other people's houses, and she thought nothing of crossing the main road. That was where she was run down. We couldn't stop her - we couldn't keep her locked up. We were getting calls frequently from shop owners and from St Francis Winery to come and collect her (Kitty liked to crash wedding parties - lots of people always attracted her).


Almost making me cry fisho... very sad situation to have to go through...
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Postby Johno6 » Wed Sep 19, 2012 4:27 pm

sorry to hear mate. as they say remember the good times.
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Re: The hardest thing I have ever had to do....thus far.

Postby blink » Wed Sep 19, 2012 4:39 pm

Moe wrote:Just had my 16 years old beautiful staffy x labrador euthinised.
The hardest decision I have ever made.
I wish people were as loyal.
R.I.P. Bundy.


Had to do this 2 weeks ago with my 12 y.o golden retriever.

Hardest thing I've ever going in there while it was done, but didn't want him to be by himself at the end.
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Postby Sky Pilot » Wed Sep 19, 2012 4:59 pm

blink wrote:
Moe wrote:Just had my 16 years old beautiful staffy x labrador euthinised.
The hardest decision I have ever made.
I wish people were as loyal.
R.I.P. Bundy.


Had to do this 2 weeks ago with my 12 y.o golden retriever.

Hardest thing I've ever going in there while it was done, but didn't want him to be by himself at the end.

Sympathies to you too Blink. I think it is great that so many of us (people) love and nurture our pets and probably animals in general. I hate people who have no regard for animals and treat them like sh1t
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Postby The Dark Knight » Wed Sep 19, 2012 6:22 pm

Jase wrote:
valleys07 wrote:Thoughts are with you Moe. Bloody tough!

Lost my first dog in 2000 and they never leave you.

helicopterking wrote:This day I fear and my new'dog is only 3.


Me too.. My dog isnt even 2 yet and already im dreading the day when he has to leave us.


Same, I'm taking my 14 month old dog to the vet tonight for another heartworm injection and dreading them finding something wrong with him in the checkup...

Same here too and my dogs 10.
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Postby MatteeG » Wed Sep 19, 2012 8:15 pm

Echo the feelings of the posters here.

Me and Mrs G had to take our greyhound to get 'the jab' a few years ago. We took him to the vet with a bit of a limp- figured it was prickle in the paw or something. Xray later showed an osteosarcoma (bone cancer) in his hind leg. We were given the option of euthanising or keeping him for a few weeks/months until it became unbearable.

We took him home with some painkillers. He showed no change for 4 months or so, still running around like a mad boy, climbing stairs etc. then one day just refused to get up out of the sandpit. Within 12 hours he'd gone from walking/eating etc to virtually nothing. We knew it was time but it was pretty late in the night. He was breathing slowly and had a consigned look on his face. :( We rugged him up for the night not expecting him to make it through the night. Eventually got to bed. Woke up early the next morning and he was still going :(. Rang the vet and got an appointment jammed in between xisting bookings.

Had to lift him on a sleeping bag through the house and into the boot of the fairmont. Folded the rear seats down and had Mrs G laying in there with him. (Not real safe but wasnt thinking about our well being at that stage). Vet came out and helped us lift him into the room. He asked if we wanted to be with him- I expected Mrs G not to want to be there but she surprised me. We were with him through out. A weird feeling, was obviously upset as he slid away but also relieved in a strange way- I swear he gave us a 'thank you' look as he left....At that stage it was the hardest thing I had to do in my life.

Shit that made me upset posting that...take it easy Moe
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Postby Sky Pilot » Wed Sep 19, 2012 8:25 pm

MatteeG wrote:Echo the feelings of the posters here.

Me and Mrs G had to take our greyhound to get 'the jab' a few years ago. We took him to the vet with a bit of a limp- figured it was prickle in the paw or something. Xray later showed an osteosarcoma (bone cancer) in his hind leg. We were given the option of euthanising or keeping him for a few weeks/months until it became unbearable.

We took him home with some painkillers. He showed no change for 4 months or so, still running around like a mad boy, climbing stairs etc. then one day just refused to get up out of the sandpit. Within 12 hours he'd gone from walking/eating etc to virtually nothing. We knew it was time but it was pretty late in the night. He was breathing slowly and had a consigned look on his face. :( We rugged him up for the night not expecting him to make it through the night. Eventually got to bed. Woke up early the next morning and he was still going :(. Rang the vet and got an appointment jammed in between xisting bookings.

Had to lift him on a sleeping bag through the house and into the boot of the fairmont. Folded the rear seats down and had Mrs G laying in there with him. (Not real safe but wasnt thinking about our well being at that stage). Vet came out and helped us lift him into the room. He asked if we wanted to be with him- I expected Mrs G not to want to be there but she surprised me. We were with him through out. A weird feeling, was obviously upset as he slid away but also relieved in a strange way- I swear he gave us a 'thank you' look as he left....At that stage it was the hardest thing I had to do in my life.

Shit that made me upset posting that...take it easy Moe

Jesus MG that broke me up. Good onya for giving your beautiful greyhound a dignified and loving departure. Awful experience that you have gone through.
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Postby Moe » Wed Sep 19, 2012 9:14 pm

Geez, all these posts have made me a tad teary, but for the right reasons I guess.
What a fantastic creature the dog is.
Loves you without question. Loyal like no other. Licks your face even when everyone else thinks you stink.
All they ask in return is a scratch on the belly, a bite of your yiros & chuck of the frisbee every other day.

I have been in the old doghouse too many times to remember, it's gonna be lonely in there now.
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Postby Sky Pilot » Wed Sep 19, 2012 10:55 pm

I feel really sorry for kids being brought up in a non pet home.
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Postby Alaska » Thu Sep 20, 2012 10:01 am

Moe wrote:Geez, all these posts have made me a tad teary, but for the right reasons I guess.
What a fantastic creature the dog is.
Loves you without question. Loyal like no other. Licks your face even when everyone else thinks you stink.
All they ask in return is a scratch on the belly, a bite of your yiros & chuck of the frisbee every other day.

I have been in the old doghouse too many times to remember, it's gonna be lonely in there now.



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This whole thread brings back many memories and tears having to go through it 3 times with my own dogs and many times when I was young with the family kennel.

I have ensured that my kids have grown up with as many animals as possible to experience all the emotions involved.
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