Family car

Well I've finally met the woman of my dreams and we're planning to move in together early next year. We'll be two adults plus three boys aged 3 to 9 so we're going to need a family car to get ourselves around - my '96 Corolla is too small and her Starlet is even smaller!
I am wondering what car we should get. We are looking at a used car, late model (3 to 5 years old?) so it has decent safety features and decent fuel economy. It'll need plenty of room for ourselves and our gear as we are intending to do a fair bit of camping towing a camper trailer.
I'd be interested to hear what people might suggest...
I am wondering what car we should get. We are looking at a used car, late model (3 to 5 years old?) so it has decent safety features and decent fuel economy. It'll need plenty of room for ourselves and our gear as we are intending to do a fair bit of camping towing a camper trailer.
I'd be interested to hear what people might suggest...