Love the Ones you're with

[Lunchcutter]

This week my husband of 11 years Joe died at home of a massive heart attack. At 45 years old it was much to soon to go but I have comfort in the knowledge that the time we had together - (you know the ups and downs of parents/friends passing, job stuff and the like that us couples go through) and the deep love we shared including that mutual respect we had for each other was something special. I wouldn't normally post a message like this one on a forum- some may even find it inappropriate but I felt the need to share, and I've been hanging around this board for about 5 years now so in some weird kinda way feel like I "know" some of you guys through your postings. i know it's always said but honestly, in this life dont sweat the small stuff. the material stuff in life is not important, i know some poor folk in money that are way richer in life than people who seemingly have "everything" it's honestly not worth it.. you never know when it may be yours or a loved ones time so make sure you make the most of every day. I'm devasted but I know I'll get through - I have too. and I really believe that my dh ( ) will help me in spirit.. no need for replies to my post.. as i said, just that I needed to share thanks lc

[GWW]

Really sorry to hear about that lunchcutter, hope you're doing ok.

[JAS]

My condolences to you and your family Lunchie...agree it's much, much too soon at 45.

Take care
JAS

[Dutchy]

All the best LC, thoughts are with you, Ive always remembered you posting about your "dh"....

[redandblack]

Thanks for sharing with us at such a sad time, LC.

It's so hard right now, but the good memories will always remain.

You've got a world of support on here and we're all thinking of you.

[Psyber]

I know something of how you feel LC, having lost my wife last October.
The sense of devastation settles with time, but no matter what you do from there on, little things bring back the sense of loss from time to time.
But gradually you find yourself remembering the good times more than the loss.
Thinking of you...

[Punk Rooster]

sorry to hear LC, I can't imagine what you're going through.

I nearly lost my GF in a car accident earlier this year- she survived a broken neck & leg, but I don't know how I would've coped if she wasn't so luvky...

[A Mum]

Sorry to hear LC

[Thiele]

My condolences to you and your Family LC

[Kahuna]

I was saddened and touched by your post Lunchcutter,all the best to you.

[Dogwatcher]

My condolences LC.

[SABRE]

[Lunchcutter]

thank you very much, my virtual "friends" - it means a lot to me at this sad time

[oldfella]

You & your Husband is in my prayers.

My condolences

[Pseudo]

Ouch.

My thoughts are with you.

[Strawb]

Not good to hear Lunch Cutter,My thoughts are with you.I don't know what you are going through and i won't say that i do know. Deepest condolences from my family to yours.

[southee]

So sorry to hear that.

Very sad.....my thoughts are with you and your family.

[Lunchcutter]

thank you again to all for your words, they give me comfort during this time and is just what I need

[Hondo]

I am very sorry to hear that news Lunchcutter. Only 45, that's so sad, my condolences to you and your families.

[CedeNullis]

Thoughts with Lunchcutter and Psyber.
It sure is a sad and beautiful life and as Psyber has pointed out, remembering the good times is what's important.