Losing your best mate

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Losing your best mate

Postby Choccies » Mon Aug 17, 2009 10:17 am

Getting home from football on Saturday arvo I found my best friend had quietly passed away in the backyard. 12 and a half years of loyalty and companionship will never be replaced. Gutted doesn't truly reflect my sadness today

R.I.P Aisha
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I love grapes. With grapes, you always get another chance. You know, if you have a crappy apple or a peach, you’re stuck with that crappy piece of fruit. If you have a crappy grape, no problem-just move on to the next. ‘Grapes: The Fruit of Hope.
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Re: Losing your best mate

Postby A Mum » Mon Aug 17, 2009 10:19 am

So sad, sorry to hear that Choccies :cry:
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Re: Losing your best mate

Postby Lightning McQueen » Mon Aug 17, 2009 10:39 am

Sad to hear Choccies, I got home last night after doing 10 hours of phone book deliveries to find our 6 y.o staffy has gone out to explore the neighbourhood.
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Re: Losing your best mate

Postby Psyber » Mon Aug 17, 2009 10:46 am

Condolences mate, I lost my dog in 2006.
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Re: Losing your best mate

Postby Choccies » Mon Aug 17, 2009 10:57 am

Thanks guys.
At least she is now with her son. He passed away in December and she was never the same when he went.
Never underestimate the joys and influences of owning a pet...
When telling my 6 year old son on Sunday his response was "Cool, we can get a new dog". Ya gotta love kids and their simple outlook on life... :|
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Re: Losing your best mate

Postby A Mum » Mon Aug 17, 2009 11:00 am

This thread reminds me...
I recently saw that movie Marley and Me.
To me it definitely relates to owning a dog.

Yes, I cried during the movie :(
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Re: Losing your best mate

Postby Footy Chick » Mon Aug 17, 2009 12:08 pm

OH NO! :shock:

So sorry to hear about Aisha, and so soon after losing Flynn :(
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Re: Losing your best mate

Postby silicone skyline » Mon Aug 17, 2009 12:18 pm

Psyber wrote:Condolences mate, I lost my dog in 2006.


That other dog probably ate him.
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Re: Losing your best mate

Postby JK » Mon Aug 17, 2009 1:15 pm

Very said news, condolences mate .. You'll enjoy the memories with fondness once the period of loss passes.

Pet's are indeed important family members and never "just another animal".
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Re: Losing your best mate

Postby Johno6 » Mon Aug 17, 2009 4:35 pm

Sorry to hear Choccies....
Im thinkin of gettin the better half a dog for anniversary present.... surely it cant go any worse than previous surprises :roll:


she wants something small n fluffy.......
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Re: Losing your best mate

Postby aceman » Mon Aug 17, 2009 4:43 pm

Johno6 wrote:Sorry to hear Choccies....
Im thinkin of gettin the better half a dog for anniversary present.... surely it cant go any worse than previous surprises :roll:


she wants something small n fluffy.......




She told me the other day when I called around she already had that, you kept it in your jocks!
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Re: Losing your best mate

Postby Choccies » Mon Aug 17, 2009 4:45 pm

Johno6 wrote:Sorry to hear Choccies....
Im thinkin of gettin the better half a dog for anniversary present.... surely it cant go any worse than previous surprises :roll:


she wants something small n fluffy.......


Tell her just go the X wax then mate... ;)
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Re: Losing your best mate

Postby Psyber » Mon Aug 17, 2009 9:13 pm

silicone skyline wrote:
Psyber wrote:Condolences mate, I lost my dog in 2006.
That other dog probably ate him.
I think the step-daughters Dachshund was checking whether there was any lunch left over...
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Re: Losing your best mate

Postby southee » Mon Aug 17, 2009 9:50 pm

Sorry Choccies, that would be very hard.

My thoughts are with you.
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Re: Losing your best mate

Postby Lunchcutter » Tue Aug 18, 2009 12:18 am

I am sorry for your loss choccies
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Re: Losing your best mate

Postby therisingblues » Tue Aug 18, 2009 2:28 pm

Sorry to hear it Choccies.
Our family dog died while I was in Japan. About 5 years ago now. He was a very good mate.
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Re: Losing your best mate

Postby Columbo » Wed Aug 19, 2009 9:07 pm

Had to have my dog put down on the moning of the 2006 Grand Final.....worst start possible to what turned out to be a great afternoon....lucky the Eags had a win that day!
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Re: Losing your best mate

Postby Felch » Thu Aug 20, 2009 10:04 am

Sorry too hear about that Choccies.

We have a very hard decision to make regarding our dog. She is 10 years old, and has extremely bad allergies - she is allergic to everything you can imagine, and gets very bad skin irritations and loses her coat. Also get ear infections. She is a great natured dog, and we had her before we had the kids, so she used to go everywhere with us. Her allergies have made it impossible for her to come inside the house now, and she is on a lot of medication on a daily basis. We have spent large amounts of money over the last 6-7 years on tests, and various drugs to get her right, but nothing has really worked. Im talking around $2500-$3000.

Im thinking enough is enough. She has cortisone injections, which usually give her 5-6 weeks of relief, but the last injection was lucky if it helped her for a week. She looks terrible, and is basically an outcast from the rest of the family as the kids want nothing to do with her as she is very smelly. Bathing does nothing to help.

Im dreading doing it, but i think its time to have her put down. I cant get my head around the idea of putting her in the car, taking her to the vet and not bringing her home though - she loves going in the car and it will be heart-breaking to see her gladly jump into the car, all excited. She is a great natured dog, we wouldnt have let it go on this long if she wasnt.

This causing some sleepless nights at the moment. Im planning on talking to the vet today about it, they obviously know us and her very well !!!
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Re: Losing your best mate

Postby Lightning McQueen » Thu Aug 20, 2009 12:11 pm

Felch wrote:Sorry too hear about that Choccies.

We have a very hard decision to make regarding our dog. She is 10 years old, and has extremely bad allergies - she is allergic to everything you can imagine, and gets very bad skin irritations and loses her coat. Also get ear infections. She is a great natured dog, and we had her before we had the kids, so she used to go everywhere with us. Her allergies have made it impossible for her to come inside the house now, and she is on a lot of medication on a daily basis. We have spent large amounts of money over the last 6-7 years on tests, and various drugs to get her right, but nothing has really worked. Im talking around $2500-$3000.

Im thinking enough is enough. She has cortisone injections, which usually give her 5-6 weeks of relief, but the last injection was lucky if it helped her for a week. She looks terrible, and is basically an outcast from the rest of the family as the kids want nothing to do with her as she is very smelly. Bathing does nothing to help.

Im dreading doing it, but i think its time to have her put down. I cant get my head around the idea of putting her in the car, taking her to the vet and not bringing her home though - she loves going in the car and it will be heart-breaking to see her gladly jump into the car, all excited. She is a great natured dog, we wouldnt have let it go on this long if she wasnt.

This causing some sleepless nights at the moment. Im planning on talking to the vet today about it, they obviously know us and her very well !!!


Get a friend to take her then. Don't look at it as bad thing, look at it as a final relief from all the pain that she goes through constantly, good luck anyway mate.
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Re: Losing your best mate

Postby Booney » Thu Aug 20, 2009 12:24 pm

We have all had to make that decision Felch, all I can say is if you know she is in pain then there really is only one ( very tough ) outcome.

You would love her too much to let her live in pain.

Never easy. Best wishes.
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