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Just wondering what everyone's views are on how long you should "date" someone before you go to bed with them...

For the purposes of this topic, the following types of casual sex relationships are excluded:

-Booty Call (phone call or sms undertaken by one party to encourage the other to engage in casual sex)

-Friend with benefits (a friend with whom you occasionally hook up or have sex with but without the deeper commitment of a relationship - more meaningful than a booty call because often the participants were friends first and sex partners later)

-F*** buddy (ongoing, semiregular, no-strings-attached casual sex)

-Hookup (sexual act with a person you are not dating or seriously committed to, encompasses the booty call, the NSA [below], and the one-night stand)

-No strings attached (NSA) (hookup in which both participants are aware that there are no future expectations)

-One-night stand (hookup with someone for one night of sex with no strings attached with the knowledge that you will never see the person again, with the conscious decision not to exchange personal information such as phone numbers)

We are talking about when you are dating someone who you can see yourself being in a relationship with. Some might say there's nothing wrong with sex on the first date, others think you should wait.

Thoughts?

I don't think you can have a blanket ruling for this, each situation & circumstance is different. I met a my last g/f in town, we spent the night partying on, we went "home" the first night (with her friend, & no, dammit!:x), she stayed for an hour.

We then spent a whole night together talking, & had our first kiss (our second meeting), & the next night, we went out for tea. After tea, we spent some more time cuddling & kissing. At this point, we discussed "when would the right time to have sex be?" We decided not to, saying that it would happen when it was meant to happen. Half hour later, I'd opened my account .

My point is though, we were concious of not rushing things, it was the 3rd "date" , & we felt the time was right. We ended up getting engaged, but it didn't work out. I think denying sex, is only there to ascertain as to whether someone is after a one-nighter, or the long haul. If you both decide your ready to give a relationship a go, then I think your ready to be sexual with that person.

This line has never failed to get me laid within the hour of saying it
"We dont need to have sex tonight, i will wait as long as u want, u are well worth the wait"
Im tellin ya boyz it works a treat.

here's my view on it all Shagwell.......

Hiawatha didnt bother too much
'bout Minnie Ha Ha and her tender touch
Till she took him to the silver stream
Then she whispered words like he'd never heard
And made him all shudder inside when she said

Wig Wam Bam gonna make you my man
Wam Bam Bam, gonna get you if I can
Wig Wam Bam wanna make you understand
Try a little touch, try a little too much
Just try a little Wig Wam Bam.

Runing bear never cared enough
About little white dove and her tender love
Till she took him to the silver stream
She told him all about what he couldnt live without
And made him all weak inside when she said

Wig Wam Bam gonna make you my man etc etc etc.................

Thanks to those glam rock legends, The Sweet.

we should start a safooty dating service?
Whos single?

What the Bloody Hell is Sex..?

MUNGO JERRY wrote:here's my view on it all Shagwell.......

Hiawatha didnt bother too much
'bout Minnie Ha Ha and her tender touch
Till she took him to the silver stream
Then she whispered words like he'd never heard
And made him all shudder inside when she said

Wig Wam Bam gonna make you my man
Wam Bam Bam, gonna get you if I can
Wig Wam Bam wanna make you understand
Try a little touch, try a little too much
Just try a little Wig Wam Bam.

Runing bear never cared enough
About little white dove and her tender love
Till she took him to the silver stream
She told him all about what he couldnt live without
And made him all weak inside when she said

Wig Wam Bam gonna make you my man etc etc etc.................

Thanks to those glam rock legends, The Sweet.

And you give my posts shite...........................?

No set period, as soon as both parties are up for it then get stuck in, it's not like it aint gonna happen eventually if you're that keen for someone ...

Booney wrote:

MUNGO JERRY wrote:here's my view on it all Shagwell.......

Hiawatha didnt bother too much
'bout Minnie Ha Ha and her tender touch
Till she took him to the silver stream
Then she whispered words like he'd never heard
And made him all shudder inside when she said

Wig Wam Bam gonna make you my man
Wam Bam Bam, gonna get you if I can
Wig Wam Bam wanna make you understand
Try a little touch, try a little too much
Just try a little Wig Wam Bam.

Runing bear never cared enough
About little white dove and her tender love
Till she took him to the silver stream
She told him all about what he couldnt live without
And made him all weak inside when she said

Wig Wam Bam gonna make you my man etc etc etc.................

Thanks to those glam rock legends, The Sweet.

And you give my posts shite...........................?

And rightfully so, I dont expect you to understand my reasoning with my post, afterall, you go and get drunk at the golf like every other normal person....NOT!

MUNGO JERRY wrote:

Booney wrote:

MUNGO JERRY wrote:here's my view on it all Shagwell.......

Hiawatha didnt bother too much
'bout Minnie Ha Ha and her tender touch
Till she took him to the silver stream
Then she whispered words like he'd never heard
And made him all shudder inside when she said

Wig Wam Bam gonna make you my man
Wam Bam Bam, gonna get you if I can
Wig Wam Bam wanna make you understand
Try a little touch, try a little too much
Just try a little Wig Wam Bam.

Runing bear never cared enough
About little white dove and her tender love
Till she took him to the silver stream
She told him all about what he couldnt live without
And made him all weak inside when she said

Wig Wam Bam gonna make you my man etc etc etc.................

Thanks to those glam rock legends, The Sweet.

And you give my posts shite...........................?

And rightfully so, I dont expect you to understand my reasoning with my post, afterall, you go and get drunk at the golf like every other normal person....NOT!

LMFAO,what else are you going to do at the Golf?

Booney wrote:

MUNGO JERRY wrote:

Booney wrote:

MUNGO JERRY wrote:here's my view on it all Shagwell.......

Hiawatha didnt bother too much
'bout Minnie Ha Ha and her tender touch
Till she took him to the silver stream
Then she whispered words like he'd never heard
And made him all shudder inside when she said

Wig Wam Bam gonna make you my man
Wam Bam Bam, gonna get you if I can
Wig Wam Bam wanna make you understand
Try a little touch, try a little too much
Just try a little Wig Wam Bam.

Runing bear never cared enough
About little white dove and her tender love
Till she took him to the silver stream
She told him all about what he couldnt live without
And made him all weak inside when she said

Wig Wam Bam gonna make you my man etc etc etc.................

Thanks to those glam rock legends, The Sweet.

And you give my posts shite...........................?

And rightfully so, I dont expect you to understand my reasoning with my post, afterall, you go and get drunk at the golf like every other normal person....NOT!

LMFAO,what else are you going to do at the Golf?

umm, fall asleep or dont go cos its boring and boring people like yourself only go to the golf..HA!

Punk Rooster wrote:I don't think you can have a blanket ruling for this, each situation & circumstance is different. I met a my last g/f in town, we spent the night partying on, we went "home" the first night (with her friend, & no, dammit!:x), she stayed for an hour.

We then spent a whole night together talking, & had our first kiss (our second meeting), & the next night, we went out for tea. After tea, we spent some more time cuddling & kissing. At this point, we discussed "when would the right time to have sex be?" We decided not to, saying that it would happen when it was meant to happen. Half hour later, I'd opened my account .

My point is though, we were concious of not rushing things, it was the 3rd "date" , & we felt the time was right. We ended up getting engaged, but it didn't work out. I think denying sex, is only there to ascertain as to whether someone is after a one-nighter, or the long haul. If you both decide your ready to give a relationship a go, then I think your ready to be sexual with that person.

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Punk Rooster wrote:We then spent a whole night together talking, & had our first kiss (our second meeting), & the next night, we went out for tea. After tea, we spent some more time cuddling & kissing. At this point, we discussed "when would the right time to have sex be?" We decided not to, saying that it would happen when it was meant to happen. Half hour later, I'd opened my account .

My point is though, we were concious of not rushing things, it was the 3rd "date" , & we felt the time was right. We ended up getting engaged, but it didn't work out. I think denying sex, is only there to ascertain as to whether someone is after a one-nighter, or the long haul. If you both decide your ready to give a relationship a go, then I think your ready to be sexual with that person.

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For the underlined extra girly passages.

Typical rubbish I'd expect from you Sheik, nothing intelligent to offer...

It used to be three chances to "come good", then the old heave ho if not

Mungo,
Golf isn't any more tedious to watch than you trying to be humourous.


Forget dating,just have sex is my advice.

Booney wrote:Mungo,
Golf isn't any more tedious to watch than you trying to be humourous.


Forget dating,just have sex is my advice.

Check mate!

Booney wrote:Mungo,
Golf isn't any more tedious to watch than you trying to be humourous.


Forget dating,just have sex is my advice.

I'll agree with you there boon.

I look forward to Mungo attemping a come back from that?

duncs7 wrote:I look forward to Mungo attemping a come back from that?

A come back from what?
I'm finding Booney's replys are that boring that I have to take no-doz to stay awake to try and read them, let alone reply to them.