NRL and group sex - implications for AFL

[Psyber]

http://au.news.yahoo.com/a/-/newshome/5 ... mp-friend/

Traumatised?

"She was absolutely excited about the fact. She was bragging about it to the staff and quite willing, openly saying how she had sex with several players," said Boyd.

Perhaps if we remove "afterwards" from this quote it would all make sense?

"For years and years afterwards I was drinking a lot, crying a lot and losing a lot of friends and doing quite destructive things to myself and other people," she told the program.

[Leaping Lindner]

No mention of the chick going home voluntarily with these blokes. What a joke. Cha ching!!

Must have been watching a different interview, I heard it mentioned plenty of times that she was a willing participant

Who's telling the truth now?

http://www.news.com.au/adelaidenow/stor ... 62,00.html

Indeed who is telling the truth? News Limited who have a vested interest in keeping the image of the Rugby League clean or Four Corners who has no hidden agenda?
I'll make my mind up when I see it in a "real" paper thanks.

[dedja]

Agreed ... that's my point.

There is so much out there now on this matter its becoming he says, she says.

Its got so messy that facts seems to be getting in the way of a good story.

Who knows what really happened?

[Thiele]

Why did she waited 7 years to come out

[dedja]

Why did she waited 7 years to come out

The Japanese guy has the answer ... http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=76ytNbGaX-M

[Pag]

If she voluntarily went to bed and consented to what happened, how can she be considered anymore a victim than Matt Johns? Maybe she's a psycho and he feared for his life if he was to turn the crazy groupie down? I am in now way in favour of rape or sexual assault, but there's a lot of grey here.

Story:
A few years ago as stupid teenagers, myself and a few mates were sitting at a mate's place, pissed. Found a couple of pairs of old boxing gloves in the shed, put them on and had a few bouts for a laugh. One of my mates got me a good one and chipped one of my teeth, which remains chipped today. I'm pretty sure I couldn't come out now and say my chipped tooth was the result of an unprovoked assault, could I?

She has very little credibility, after seven years, with workmates rubbishing her story and police saying everything was above board at the time. If she really didn't consent, then I really do feel for her and what she's gone through, but I don't know how she has the credibility for anyone to believe her story.

Group sex may be immoral, but that's up to individuals to judge. If everyone consents, then I don't think it's any more immoral than any other sex, unless you're from the catholic church. Obviously it was adultery on his part, but that's for his wife to punish him, not Channel 9. It's a shame that professional footballers livelihoods are affected so much by what happens in their personal life. They may as well never leave their house nowadays.

[dinglinga]

news to hand ...

the NRL has cleared matty j of misconduct ....it seems the nz girl wasn't aware that in 2002 it was still unlimited interchange

[Dogwatcher]

Get that text on your phone Dinga?

[aceman]

Why did she waited 7 years to come out

It's nothing new, been happening since JC played CHB for Jerusalem.
Back then though it wasn't cool to get your face all over the TV or get massive payouts to keep quiet. Funny 'bout that!

[Dogwatcher]

So you're saying that Matty johns isn't the messiah? Just a very naughty boy?

[Baron Greenback]

Its a load of crap.
If it was 4 women having sex with one guy, no-one would be feeling sorry for the guy, just like we shouldn't feel sorry for the woman in the Matty Johns situation.
She willingly participated and is now dredging it up again for her own benefit.
I've had a gutful of everyone getting on Matty's back. If it's not the papers its talkback radio and everyone needs to leave him alone. He's already lost his job on the footy show and with the Storm and for what? Having group sex? What he does in his private life is his own business.
The only thing he has done wrong as far I can see is cheating on his partner and she's forgiven him so everyone else should too.
And the woman at the centre of the 'scandal' needs a good hard look at herself. Bloody slapper.

Rant over

[Q.]

[dedja]

Quichey =

[Q.]

LOL, but look a bit harder at the comic strip and you'll find it makes a pretty good point.

[dedja]

LOL, but look a bit harder at the comic strip and you'll find it makes a pretty good point.

it takes two (or more) to tango ...

[Drop Bear]

Its a load of crap.
If it was 4 women having sex with one guy, no-one would be feeling sorry for the guy, just like we shouldn't feel sorry for the woman in the Matty Johns situation.
She willingly participated and is now dredging it up again for her own benefit.
I've had a gutful of everyone getting on Matty's back. If it's not the papers its talkback radio and everyone needs to leave him alone. He's already lost his job on the footy show and with the Storm and for what? Having group sex? What he does in his private life is his own business.
The only thing he has done wrong as far I can see is cheating on his partner and she's forgiven him so everyone else should too.
And the woman at the centre of the 'scandal' needs a good hard look at herself. Bloody slapper.

Rant over

[Q.]

LOL, but look a bit harder at the comic strip and you'll find it makes a pretty good point.

it takes two (or more) to tango ...

IMO, that we'll happilly expose or lap up the exposure to satisfy gender hatred, whether that be that footballers are mysoginistic deviants or that young women are groupie sluts, neither of which are true.

As I wrote on the first page, symptom of a sexually repressed society.

There are some fine lines here, but so very often the guilt expressed by an individual over consensual sexual activity is a by-product of our closeted, traditionalist society. Why is it that a male would not feel shame afterwards if three or four females had group sex with him, but a female in the reverse situation would?

[dedja]

Here's a better explaination ... http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=5Xd_zkMEgkI

[Dog_ger]

Unfortunately the club may not survive this.

[Dogwatcher]

http://www.news.com.au/adelaidenow/story/0,22606,25534784-5006301,00.html