dedja wrote:re-read my first line ...

Yes, but the reason Racial Vlification or any Vilification is wrong is because it has the potential to hurt the other person. Obviously, if someone reacts like Gowsa did it means that the comments hurt a bit. It has the same impact as any vilification in that respect. There is no need to fire back more comments at that point, adding to the issue. Rather, it is a good time to pull the head back in, even apologise if at all possible. It definitely takes no guts at all to throw comments to a player from behind the safety of the boundary fence. Something 'small' people would tend to do.
.. btw, yes, there is no excuse for Gowsa reacting the way he did either. As stated originally, neither party involved comes out looking good.
Anyway, enough said by me and it is probably only the teacher in me that is why I feel this way.
Cheers